I was inspired by A New York Girl's post "Effortless Style". It was a really well-written (ie: could easily be in Vogue!) and she discussed the art of having effortless style. Ms. NY Girl basically discussed what my philosphy in life is as well: How can one go out and be supportive and nurturing to others if she is hating herself and does not possess confidence? Fashion can help us feel good about ourselves even in difficult times. I think effortless style really gives us that boost of confidence that we need. We are sometimes surrounded by much negativity and people who may be very interested in seeing us fail, but confidence in ourselves and give us the ability to go out and make the most of our skills and abilities.
Like many of us, I workout hard - long runs, Lotte Burke Pilates, yoga, try to have a healthy diet, and I want to feel strong and look and feel good in all the fashions I spend my hard-earned money on! When I feel like I look good, I'm happy. If I'm happy and I'm willing to go that extra mile for someone else.
I admire classic women who just seem to know how to dress in a tasteful manner. Yesterday I had not planned my outfit, but I do felt like I have that level of 'effortless style'. I was running late and quickly chose a trusted black Anne Klein skirt, black patent pumps from Nordstom and a cream Forever blouse with ruffles topped with a Banana black patent belt. Of course the blouse could have been neatly tucked into the skirt, but I must have been feeling a bit mad-men-ish! It seems that I have been well-received (outfit-wise, haha!) in two meetings, while doing erronds at lunchtime and passing some colleagues in the hallway. I could have also worn a black leather trench-style coat or the new black trench from DKNY that purchased for fall, however, it was STILL 80 degrees; maybe next time!
Isn't nice when we can achieve effortlessly what has taken so much work to actually get to this point. Here is wishing everyone a confident, stylish day!
October 01, 2009
Giveaway!
If you haven't already, stop by Blonde Ambition's blog. Ms. Blonde Ambition is having a great giveaway: A lovely scarf, your choice of two colors.
How nice, a new friend!
Entries are accepted until October 15th, so visit soon!
How nice, a new friend!
Entries are accepted until October 15th, so visit soon!
September 29, 2009
My Lily Skirt {finally!} Arrived!
After a long week, fighting a bit of a bug, I was so excited to arrive home late Friday evening to find that my Lily skirt that I had ordered a couple of weeks ago had arrived! It couldn't fit better if I would have had it custom made, it is perfect! That really does amaze me because I have two tailors that I am pretty certain really, really like me alot! I ended up getting the 0, rather than the 2, and I just couldn't be happier! I wore it to church on Sunday, with just a shrunken cardi from Black and White Market and knit top )boutique in San Diego) to bring out the beautiful blues in the skirt, keeping in mind that it was 87 degrees at my house! I plan to wear it with black tights in the "later" fall, but just wore black Anne Klein pumps sans tights on Sunday. Photos are in my backyard, which is actually doing quite well through this heatwave.
Also wore it to a movie Sunday afternoon, My One and Only, with Renee Zellweger. Great movie, really makes you see how far women have come in education and society. I think this movie would encourage any young woman to GO TO COLLEGE after seeing what this poor character went through. After the movie I had to change into sweats {this was hard, seriously, this is most comfortable skirt EVER!} for a 2 1/2 hour walk on the beach Sunday evening, taking advantage of the very warm evening. Edgar only accused me of 'trying to kill him' towards the end of the walk, it was a great walk overall!
Fall Decor is UP! Yay, however, I still have to add pumpkins (next weekend), so I'll wait to take pictures...hope everyone one had a great weekend!
Also wore it to a movie Sunday afternoon, My One and Only, with Renee Zellweger. Great movie, really makes you see how far women have come in education and society. I think this movie would encourage any young woman to GO TO COLLEGE after seeing what this poor character went through. After the movie I had to change into sweats {this was hard, seriously, this is most comfortable skirt EVER!} for a 2 1/2 hour walk on the beach Sunday evening, taking advantage of the very warm evening. Edgar only accused me of 'trying to kill him' towards the end of the walk, it was a great walk overall!
Fall Decor is UP! Yay, however, I still have to add pumpkins (next weekend), so I'll wait to take pictures...hope everyone one had a great weekend!
September 26, 2009
Weekend Goals....and a new BAG! (or two!!)
I've been in end-of-fiscal-year **heaven** ;-), but I do have Monday off before the next crazy two weeks, so 3 days to accomplish things for me!
I have been searching for a great rolling bag for my laptop. It is sooo heavy to drag around and there is a long walk from the parking lot to the office. I know that feel the vertibre compressing when I travel with it! This evening I found a great light weight rolling bag AND a matching handbag from IMAN on HSN. Just happened to land on the presentation while looking for a movie. Can't wait to receive them!
Goals for the weekend:
- Fall decor!
- Pictures of Fall pieces
- Paint bookcase
- Paint Master bath
Have a great weekend!
Rolling bag in Hunter Green
September 23, 2009
Happy Fall!
J Crew
Happy Fall!
Fall is my ultimate favorite time of year. I have a sense of renewal and clarity for the home, self and wardrobe. Possibilities seem so endless in the fall. My fall rituals include decorating the outside of my home the last weekend of September and buying pumpkins from a local patch. {It's still very hot where I live (which I hate!), so sometimes the pumpkins aren't available until October}. Fall is also my favorite time to shop for fashions; fall fashions, the magazines, blogs, advertisement just seem more inspiring in the fall.
My little ones were all born in the fall as well, which makes them even more special to me. Wooley, my 'baby' was born October 1, almost 12-years ago this October! My rescue bunny, Madelaine, has unknown birth date, so I've given her the date of December 1, and rounding out my 'family', my almost-1-year-old baby Lionhead, Lyonn, was born November 2, 2008.
My fiancé and I are contemplating a Fall wedding, but that may have to wait until NEXT Fall (something to look forward to!).
September 22, 2009
What is YOUR Style?
Find your Style! This was a cute site to find your style based on favorite things. I had to share it because "what is the quality like" are the first words out of my mouth when finding new items (below). Somewhat scary that this little program pegged me so well! So, What is your Style?!
Your Signature Style is: Understated Elegance
Your Signature Style is: Understated Elegance
Taste may be acquired for most people, but you've always had it. You just know when something works. Whether it's the way you dress or the way you entertain, you're comfortable with who you are and it shows. You work quietly at doing things well and are never satisfied until you get it "right". The first question you ask when you choose something is "how well is it made?" Your friends think you're a perfectionist. Is there anything wrong with that? Not in your world.
September 21, 2009
I'm Overwhelmed with Gratitude!
I received a Kreative Blogger award on Friday from Ms. Headbands and Handbags !! I am so excited; this is my first award. I've only been blogging since April 2009, however I had been reading blogs a few months prior to get some ideas. Please checkout Headbands and Handbags if you haven't, she and I have so many things in common that I feel like she's become a dear friend.
This award made my week because last week was quite a week. I was accepted into Grad School the very day my company completely cut all educational funding. Yes, this is an extra benefit, but I was really counting on my company to pay for my degree, or at least a substantial portion of it. I have a very hard decision to make as far as taking on a huge amount of debt. My thoughts are either I should go to school now for my design degree and begin my MBA in 1 1/2 years; by then the company may have reinstated the program. I would pay for the design degree on my own (MUCH less than the MBA...) Desisions, desisions. Advice is welcomed!
On to the Award!
Rules:
1. Thank the person who nominated you for this award. {done!)2. Copy the logo and place it on your blog. {done!}3. Link to the person who nominated you for this award. {done!}
4. Name 7 things about yourself that people may not know. {done!}5. Nominate 7 Kreativ Bloggers:
This was hard being new myself, but these are blogs that I enjoy reading and 'appear' to be 'newer' (and I hope that they haven't already been nominated) - I'd still like to get to know the authors better:
1. Polka Dots and Protein Bars
2. Susu Paris Chic
3. Bunny Rose Cottage
4. She Left on a Monday
5. Style Chronicle
6. With Style and Grace
7. Preppy Arpon
6. Post links to the 7 blogs you nominate: {linked above}
7. Leave a comment on each of the blogs letting them know they've been nominated. {will complete after this post is published!}
7 things that you may not know about me:
1. I’m VERY picky about food (to the point that I KNOW it can be irritating!). I’m anti-preservative/pre-packaged food and buy or request organic everything. I avoid fats and high carbs and avoid meat for the most part, but will have a low fat, organic burger every 2 months or so. Most of this came about because I’m hypoglycemic, which means everything I eat turns to sugar. If I’m not careful or don’t practice portion control, I’m knocked out for the day. It’s the portion control that is hard…
2. I love to run and become really edgy when I am unable to. I run in the evening after work and whenever day light permits, I run in the canyons around my home. Nothing is more relaxing after a mentally exhausting day. I’m trying to do a ½ hour of Lotte Burke Pilates in the morning before work. I was doing well, but now I have to get back into it.
3. I really regret not going to law school. I have a Paralegal degree and business fraud degree, so I had the opportunity to take many law classes; I absolutely loved them and would study for hours just because I enjoyed learning about the law so much. I suppose there is still time, but that is one thing I would change if I could have a d0-over in life!
4. I’m a nerd. A fashion-loving, clothes fanatic nerd, but a nerd just the same! I love to read and learn new things. I’m happiest when I have the time (which is almost never!) to go to Barnes and Noble and peruse the books. I’ve even asked my fiancĂ© to go with me on a Saturday night on several occasions, just because the opportunity was there.
5. I started blogging because I needed a creative outlet and I really missing talking about fashion, design and just style in general. I’m also hoping to improve my ‘creative writing’ skills. I usually write technical documents and hope that I can develop (or rediscover) a more creative style. I had been so busy with work and school that I had to leave my creative endeavors behind for a few years. I overuse exclaimation marks, but I just don't want to sound 'technical' or too serious - please expect to see an improvement in this area! (oops....)
6. I’ll be able to ‘retire’ relatively young because I stated with my company at a young age. So at that point I want to live in Europe ½ of the year and somewhere with 4-seasons on the east coast the other ½. (I’ve been thinking Martha’s Vineyard, but last week we were talking about how nice Newport, RI is…)
For that reason, I want to have the ability to hopefully have my own business in the fashion/design/writing realm where I can work where I want to work. I’m starting “the plan” early, and blogging is really a first step in the process. Of course, plans can change, but it never hurts to have a blueprint from which to modify and work with! {And, this is where the design degree (mentioned above) comes it. I had thought that I would do that after the MBA.}
7. I’ve always wanted an English Bulldog named Aftynne. However, she wouldn’t be able to run with me and would be hard to travel with… And I’m not certain how she would be with my bunnies (their jaws look soooooo strong….). I almost purchased one years about (my life pre-bunny, so 12-years ago!).
And a bonus - my sweet little Jersey Wooley bunny, Tealle-Wooley will be 12-years old on October 1 ! He’s quite ill, but he’s still very happy (the vet and I discussed whether or not he was ‘ready to go’ last week, and she feels he’s not ready {which is what I had thought, but I’m biased…}.
Thank you again for nominating me, Ms. HB&HB!
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